Healing Relationships: Past & Present Lifetimes

Feb 1
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February - 2026

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Phoenix Rising Intuitive Counseing & Energy Healing

Healing relationships past present lifetimes

I believe that most of the people we form relationships with—whether romantic partners, family members, friends, or even business associates—are people we have known before, in past lifetimes. From this perspective, relationships are rarely random. Instead, they are meaningful reunions between Souls who have crossed paths many times before.

Why would this be so? I believe there are different reasons Souls choose to meet again. Sometimes it is to gain closure, sometimes to heal unfinished business, and sometimes simply to experience each other in a new way. Each lifetime offers another opportunity to grow, learn, and relate differently than before.

Most people have experienced the feeling of meeting someone for the first time and instantly feeling a strong connection. You might think, I feel like I’ve known this person before, even though you know you haven’t met in this life. That sensation, in my view, is Soul recognition. On some level, your energy remembers theirs. It can be fascinating—and often validating—to explore how you may have known each other in previous lifetimes. In many cases, it is not just one lifetime but several.

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The opposite experience can happen as well. You may encounter someone, perhaps a boss or colleague, who immediately repels you for no logical reason. Your conscious mind cannot explain the aversion, yet your body and emotions react strongly. From a Soul perspective, this may indicate an adversarial or painful relationship in a past life. The memory is not in your mind, but it is stored energetically. With intuitive exploration, it is often possible to uncover what the dynamic represents and why it feels so charged. *I do this kind of work with clients when they want deeper understanding about difficult or confusing relationships, as well as if they are curious about an easy relationship they adore.

Karmic Love:

Sometimes when a romantic relationship ends, it is simply because one or both people have grown in different directions and are no longer compatible. Not all endings are dramatic or karmic; some are just part of natural evolution.

Other times, however, relationships are much more intense and difficult. In these cases, there is often something unresolved from a previous incarnation. The same emotional patterns and conflicts may repeat themselves, but now they present an opportunity for closure. These relationships can feel magnetic, painful, or impossible to let go of. From a Soul level, they function like assignments: both people are given a chance to resolve what was left unfinished. When that resolution is reached, the relationship often ends—sometimes even when one person still desperately wants to hold on.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6w1WM_qOkI

Vincent... No longer afraid of dying. Watch now:

Enduring Love:

Not all long-term relationships are karmic in a heavy sense. Some are simply loving continuations. Vincent, for example,(watch the video above) has been married to his wife for many years. They stayed together through challenges and truly feel they found their Soulmate early in life. When Vincent developed cancer, both of them found themselves worrying more about each other than about themselves. After his first remote healing session with me, Vincent no longer feared dying or leaving his wife behind. Despite his illness, he felt peaceful and hopeful about their future—together and beyond this life. This kind of enduring love often reflects a long Soul history rooted in mutual support and devotion.

Lack of (Romantic) Love:

For those who have not had a long-term partner, it may not mean something is wrong or missing. Sometimes a Soul chooses to focus on another area of growth in a particular lifetime. There may be a specific contribution or service that requires more independence and freedom.

I have had relationships, but I have never been married. Although I would have loved to have children, I understand that being a wife and mother would likely have become my primary focus. I would not have been available to help the thousands of clients—both human and animal—that I have worked with. Is it possible to balance love, family, and career? In many cases, yes. In others, no. It depends on the magnitude of what the Soul agreed to fulfill in that lifetime.

Self Love:

Whether you are in a romantic relationship or single this Valentine’s season, self-love is essential. Appreciate yourself for both the small and big things you do, and for who you are. Comparing yourself to others only creates feelings of inadequacy and low emotional states. Everyone is on their own unique path.

Love yourself and honor your journey, including both growth and challenges. Buy your favorite flowers, sing in the shower, walk in a beautiful place, hug your dog or cat, your partner or child. Let yourself feel the warmth that arises. I often encourage mothers to really take in how wonderful a hug with their child feels. The energy exchange benefits both. Love, in all its forms, is something we practice giving and receiving.

Happy Valentine's Day and Beyond!

Ellie 🥰

Recent Reviews:

"Hi Ellie, I am so looking forward to our next call. I am feeling very different. When I try to worry about our future I feel like I am 'blocked' in some way.

I look forward to more magic on Tuesday. Vincent"

Vincent, Scotland February, 2026

(worry about his wife cleared - see video above)

"I was experiencing severe depression and anxiety. I felt I didn't belong here, on this planet, in this world. That I didn't have a place, and I didn't fit in anywhere. That I had no purpose. I didn't even want to leave the house. You cleared all that for me. I haven't experienced any depression since you cleared me. I found a new career, I have been successful, and I have an inner calm that no one can take from me. :)"

Rhea January, 2026

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